One hoped-for breakthrough in health care: Being nicer
Toward the end of 2012, I made the rounds of many of my doctors. There were tests to be done, results to review, and new tests and plans of action to put in place. We, my medical team and I, also discussed the changes unfolding in the medical field, affecting professionals and patients. Amid the talk of new scientific discoveries, equipment, tests and treatments, a particular comment by one of my doctors still echoes in my mind. "We're just not being nice to one another," he told me. "It's really sad."
‘Massacre management’ and the culture of life
A society increasingly desensitized to violence through entertainment and national policy has an effect on an understanding of the Second Amendment. It is time for our nation to renew a culture of life in our society. Unlimited access to weapons is not part of this life.
Find work/life balance not in a clock but in the heart
As the year begins, so do resolutions. Popular among these is the resolve to achieve more balance in one's life: balance in terms of time spent at work versus time for family, friends, exercise, leisure, community, prayer -- or simply time to finish thoughts and sentences.
Gun ownership is not an absolute right
The following column appeared in the Jan. 3 issue of the Rhode Island Catholic, diocesan newspaper of Providence, R.I. *** The right to own guns is not an absolute right. As a personal right it always has to be balanced with the legitimate rights of other people and with protecting the common good. That’s a […]
How capital punishment works, or doesn’t, in Pennsylvania
In the last four months, three men were scheduled to be executed: Terrance Williams, Hubert Michael and Mark Spotz. Last-minute appeals delayed those cases, which are now pending before the Pennsylvania Supreme Court and a federal appeals court. Decisions will be made about these cases soon, meaning the death penalty will continue to be headline news in 2013. Nearly 200 others also sit on Pennsylvania’s death row.
Make your dreams come true, especially when people say you can’t
Throughout life, you'll be told you can't do something. You'll be told you're too young, too old, too tall, too short. Some will say you're overweight; others will call you underweight. In some eyes, you'll be under experienced; in others over experienced. In some cases, the people who say those things may be correct. That doesn't mean you shouldn't dream. Dreams come true when you indulge them.
End the death penalty, build the culture of life
That people continue to be put to death under the control of state governments and courts of the United States is indicative on how we, as a nation and Christians, view human rights and even life itself.
Compassion, forgiveness and a baby’s baptism echo across the years
I was 20 years old and unmarried when I had my daughter. I was raised by a single mother who sporadically took my sister and me to Mass. We were Christmas-Easter Catholics. I wanted to get my daughter baptized but I knew I wasn't living an active Catholic lifestyle. When I went to my parish pastor for a meeting about baptizing my daughter he wasn't very nice and I felt no guidance from him. At one point he referred to me as “stupid” and I was in tears. I was very much lost but not stupid.
A lesson for teens or anyone: Texting while driving kills
Driving while drunk kills. Driving while exhausted kills. Texting while driving kills. Driving while distracted kills. Before you get behind the wheel of a car, put away the phone. Texts and calls can wait. Give the keys to someone else if you're overly tired, or if you've had just a swallow of alcohol. Don't speed. Ever. If your friends are distracting you while you're driving, tell them to stop or pull over until they shut up.
Starting the new year with an Epiphany — an awakening
I love words, as any writer should, and "epiphany" is a favorite word of mine. It names a great January liturgical feast, namely the Scripture story about three mysterious men bearing gifts, appearing from the East, looking for the baby Jesus to worship him. The church uses it as the occasion to remind us that Christ came for all, and by extension all of us throughout history. It was an epiphany, an awakening, for all humankind.