Ted Caiola oversees kitchen operations at a fish fry hosted March 29 by St. Mary Parish in Schwenksville. Now in its second decade, the weekly Lenten dinners attract hundreds of participants from the parish and the surrounding community. (Photo by Gina Christian)

For one Montgomery County parish, serving crab cakes is a way of spreading the Gospel message.

St. Mary’s in Schwenksville hosts an annual fish fry during five of the six Friday evenings of Lent, drawing hundreds of parishioners and community members. The shared meal “nourishes people physically, socially and spiritually,” according to Father Louis Bellopede, pastor.

Now in its second decade, the gathering attracts an average of 250 diners per session and features both eat-in and take-out entrees. Selections include fried fish, meatless spaghetti, grilled cheese, mozzarella sticks, French fries, salad and cole slaw. A kids’ menu is available, along with homemade desserts (“if you’re not Lenting on those,” said Father Bellopede), coffee and tea.


Weekly specials include baked salmon and the abovementioned crab cakes, while frequent buyer cards offer discounts on the meals.

Some 30 volunteers work to transform the parish hall into a restaurant-like setting. After placing their orders at the entrance, guests are seated by a hostess at tables decorated in Lenten purple. Servers bring appetizers and entrees, which are prepared by a team of parishioners in the hall’s kitchen. Soft music provides a soundtrack for the evening, which runs from 4 to 7 p.m.

The relaxed atmosphere is the result of careful planning and a commitment to excellence, said Kevin O’Donnell, who coordinates the event.

“We did a lot of research and talked to folks as far away as Colorado to learn different organizational techniques to make it more efficient, as well as more fun,” said O’Donnell.

(Watch a video of a recent fish fry dinner at St. Mary’s Parish.)

New volunteers, who are recruited each year, are trained “to serve the food in a way that is professional and respectful, and that keeps it hot,” he added.

The same attention to detail is evident in the table settings, said O’Donnell’s wife Jeanne, who oversees the decorations. Placemats have Lenten images and texts, and the centerpieces, which she designs and crafts, underscore the reason for the season.

“The grapevine wreaths with thorns recall the passion of Christ, and the eggs and lilies on the outside signify his resurrection,” she said. “And the candle in the center represents the light of Christ, with three wicks to symbolize the Trinity.”

(Read a related article on the grammar debate over fish “fries” or “frys.”)

Parishioners donate dinner items through SignUpGenius, an online software platform for coordinating volunteer projects. In addition, area vendors partner with the parish to provide wholesale pricing on dinner staples.


For the volunteers, the weekly dinners are a labor of love.

“It’s a lot of fun, and we’re just very privileged to be able to do this,” said Paul Brady, who prepared crab cakes and fries at the March 29 dinner.

Originally from County Cavan, Ireland, Brady noted that the only ingredient missing from the parish kitchen was a bottle of malt vinegar, which is typically used to season fried fish and potatoes in his homeland.

“The Irish know fish and chips,” he said with a laugh. “We just need to educate them here a bit.”

Although she was initially nervous about balancing trays of food, seventh-grader Audrey Wizimirski enjoys her role as a server.

“The best part is helping people and bringing them their meals and drinks,” she said. “I love this parish.”

Such hospitality extends to diners from other denominations, making the event a form of ecumenism and evangelization.

“It’s not just for the parish, it’s for the community,” said Peggy Hinson, who manages the dinner orders. “We have a lot of people that are not Catholic who come, and some Lutherans who come.”

Fellow volunteer Mary Farrell added that “priests and members of neighboring parishes” also enjoy the fish fry.

Michael Peter of St. Eleanor Parish in Collegeville enjoyed the chance to treat his young daughters to a sit-down meal “without having to cook or clean up.”

Table centerpieces feature Lenten symbols at a series of annual fish fry dinners hosted by St. Mary Parish in Schwenksville. (Gina Christian)

“We don’t have a fish fry in my parish, and my wife and son are at an event,” said Peter, whose daughter Bernadette declared the fish to be the best item on her plate at the March 29 dinner.

The fish fry brings the parish and the wider community together in a simple but profound way, said Father Bellopede.

“You’re engaged here with a community that has time for you and wants to hear your story,” he said. “Maybe you’ve been going through a rough time, or maybe you have happy moments you want to share with somebody.”

The parish is a natural setting for such meals, he added.

“We go from the table of the Lord to the table of our neighbor,” he said. “We should be together, to share our faith, to share our meals, to share our company. It’s about being on the journey together.”


For more information on St. Mary Parish’s Lenten fish fry, visit CatholicPhilly.com’s calendar of events.