Pope Francis pictured during private audience at VaticanMore than 300 bishops including a dozen cardinals heard Pope Francis tell them of his heartfelt sorrow for the pain caused by priests involved in the sexual abuse scandals of the last decades.

He addressed them Sunday morning, Sept. 27, at St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Wynnewood.

The pontiff urged his brother bishops to strengthen the bond between the church and the family, and he issued the hierarchy a rallying cry for pastoral care.

Walking down a hallway lined with seminarians before entering the seminary’s St. Martin’s Chapel at 9 a.m., Pope Francis clearly enjoyed greeting and waving to the young men. 

He paused for cell phone photos as he walked and stopped to chat with a few students, including a relatively long conversation for a couple minutes with a Hispanic seminarian, in Spanish. The pope, like a grandfather, quipped with the young man and gave him a playful tap on the cheek before walking away into the chapel, to the applause of the assembled bishops.

After an introduction by Archbishop Charles Chaput, who sat at the chapel’s altar with seminary rector Bishop Timothy Senior, Pope Francis began his address on a somber note. 

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“From the very depths of my heart I wanted to share the stories of pain of those who were abused by priests,” he said.

He was referring to an unscheduled meeting he held earlier in the morning with five survivors of sexual abuse by priests. Between 8 and 9 a.m., Pope Francis spoke with three women and two men and prayed with them, expressing great sorrow for their pain and assured them of accompanying them in their suffering. 

Addressing the bishops publicly in the chapel, he denounced the horrors of such abuse, saying that “very very deeply, God weeps.” 

The pope promised that he “will be jealous with vigilance, watching over the church to protect our youth.I promise you, all those responsible will be held accountable.”

This set the tone for the remainder of his speech, which focused on the pastoral nature of bishops and the need to shepherd their flocks — particularly with regard to the family.

“He addresses such an important topic in placing that in front of us all,” said Bishop John O. Barres, bishop of Allentown in Pennsylvania. “He is articulating the very powerful sense of remorse of the church for these victims, but we have to do more. We have to be vigilant, proactive and ensure it never happens again.”

The pope’s talk was not without joy, or a little levity.

At one point early in the speech he quipped, “I’m speaking in Spanish because all of you know Spanish,” to the chuckles of the bishops. 

He went on to say, “Every day in every portion of this planet, the church has a reason to be joyful in the Lord … because even in the hardest and worst trials, we keep our faith.

Noting that without the family “the church would not exist,” Pope Francis was emphatic that the current issues debated in society, such as marriage, should not dictate the church’s policy toward them. 

It is really vital that the church come out and proclaim the Gospel at every place and every occasion,” he said. “The Gospel is not a product to be consumed. It does not enter into this culture of only consumption.” 

The pope pointed out the tendency of some young adults to delay marriage and start a family because they lack the material means. The church must help young people to “mature toward the commitment of marriage,” he said, and do more than just “explain perpetually.”

Despite those challenges, Pope Francis was optimistic and defended young people, while also challenging them. It would be a mistake to describe them as “indifferent” or purely selfish, he said, adding, “We need to encourage young people to run this risk; it is a risk for fertility and for life.”

Here the Holy Father segued into the duties of the bishops, and he laid out his point in simple terms: “What is the first work of the bishop? To pray. The second work, that goes together with that? To preach.”

The back-to-basics talk resonated with Bishop Mark J. Seitz of the Diocese of El Paso.

“He told us what we needed to hear. We’re so easily distracted with the heaviness of very complex issues, but he really called us back to the basics, which is something we need to hear every now and again, or we forget,” Bishop Seitz said.

Bishops have a duty to shepherd “first with prayer and then with proclamation,” Pope Francis said. Pausing a moment and smiling wryly, he added: “And then everything else, if there’s time.”

While the tone was pastoral, the address was largely familiar, and even emphatic of the particular calling of celibacy in the clergy.

“A good pastor renounces the love of a family precisely in order to focus all his energies, and the grace of his particular vocation, on the evangelical blessing of the love of men and women who carry forward God’s plan of creation,” the pope said. 

Yet the theme throughout was that pastors should start such a ministry by “beginning with those who are lost, abandoned, wounded, broken, downtrodden and deprived of their dignity,” he said.

Cardinal Luis Antonio Tagle of Manila, Philippines, said the bishops “must reflect on so much. I must reflect on all of it and take it all in.”

Calling on his brother bishops to “plant even in the rows that deviate from the normal,” Cardinal Tagle cited the Gospel story of the Samaritan woman at the well: “She had five non-husbands and even she was able to give testimony,” he said.

Msgr. Donald Leighton, pastor of St. John Vianney Parish in Gladwyne said the pope “is always so simple, yet so profound, in dealing with the weight of such heavy issues.”

Another Philadelphia priest, Father James Olson, is an adjunct professor at the seminary and a teacher at the archdiocesan Neumann-Goretti High School in Philadelphia. “It’s profound,” he said of the pope’s speech. “To call it once in a lifetime doesn’t do it justice. But what makes it even more amazing is how intimate it was. He seemed to address each and every one of us from where he stood. We are really called.”

Not only clergy attended the pope’s seminary address. Leslie Kelso, a lay graduate student of theology at the seminary said she was impressed by “just how much of a note of joy he struck. Even after he left, and people were walking out to their cars and the buses, there was such an atmosphere of love. I’m uplifted for days.”

Her favorite line of the speech, she said, “was when he was telling us not to give in to the temptation of materialism: ‘Life gets consumed without being tasted.’ I wrote it down, because it’s so true.”

“I think the core of his message focused on the message of the week — the essential place of family,” said Bishop Joseph Strickland of Tyler, Texas. “He was very emphatic about we bishops going out and being joyful, not timid, and he used the word ‘accompany’ a great deal — to accompany families on their journeys amid the real down-to-earth issues that they deal with.”

Pope Francis further framed his points to the bishops by comparing them, as he has in past speeches, to shepherds.

“As shepherds following in the footsteps of the Good Shepherd, we are asked to seek out, to accompany, to lift up, to bind up the wounds of our time,” the pope said.

He ended with a reference to the family, which was the theme for the week in Philadelphia and the reason he ended his apostolic visit to the United States in the city, as it concluding hosting the Eighth World Meeting of Families. At some 20,000 participants, it was the most successful such triennial meeting since its inception in 1994.

“The family is our ally, our window to the world, the evidence of an irrevocable blessing of God destined for all the children who in every age are born into this difficult yet beautiful creation which God has asked us to serve!” Pope Francis said.