Sister Ruth Held, A.C.J., 96, a member of the Handmaids of the Sacred Heart of Jesus for more than seven decades, died Oct. 25 with members of her Handmaid community present.
She was born in Philadelphia to Barbara Waldenberger Held and Leonard Held on July 21, 1920. Her close family were her beloved brother Robert (Bob) and sister Sally Held Sharkey, with whom she had a profound spiritual connection in the Catholic faith.
After graduation from John W. Hallahan Catholic Girls’ High School in 1938, she worked some years before entering the Handmaids of the Sacred Heart of Jesus as a postulant in Cuba in 1941.
Admitted to novitiate on March 9, 1942, Sister Ruth made temporary profession of vows in Cuba two years later and returned to the United States to pursue her Bachelor of Arts degree in English at Rosemont College, followed by her Master of Arts at Villanova University.
Sister Ruth made perpetual profession of vows on Aug. 15, 1950, in Wyncote.
She became a teacher of religion and English, and served as Principal of Ancilla Domini Academy, a high school in Germantown from 1953 through 1961. During her tenure there she taught many young women who would later embrace their vocation with the Handmaid community.
Also during this time, Sister Ruth served as superior. In 1967 Sister Ruth began teaching at St. Basil the Great School in Kimberton, where she also served as principal. She remained there until 1971.
Following her teaching career, Sister Ruth became involved in retreat ministry, working at St. Raphaela Center in Haverford from the 1970s through 2012. During this time she also served as treasurer of both the community and retreat center, and also as the provincial secretary.
Sister Ruth loved both teaching and retreat ministry and is remembered by all for her joyful, generous presence, full of gratitude for her vocation.
Her funeral Mass will be celebrated at St. Raphaela Center on Tuesday, Nov. 1 at 11 a.m., preceded by a viewing starting at 10 a.m.
In addition to the Handmaid community, Sister Ruth is survived by many cousins, nephews, nieces and their families.
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