With all of the current controversy over the admission of immigrants and refugees from the Middle East because of terrorists attacks both in Europe and the United States, it might be well to remember that most newcomers to the U.S. are not terrorists, but simply men and women looking for a better, safer life for themselves and their children.

Many are Muslim of course, but others are Christians who were especially vulnerable because of their minority status in their homelands.

St. Maron Church in South Philadelphia happens to be the place of worship for many Christians who come from various countries in the Middle East. Many of them are of course Maronite Rite Catholics, an ancient rite centered in Lebanon and surrounding areas that has been in communion with the Holy See from its foundation.

The Mass celebrated for them by Father Vincent Farhat is a blend of English and a form of Aramaic, the native tongue of Jesus himself. Other worshipers may be Roman Catholic, members of other Eastern Rites an even Orthodox, drawn to the little church by the Middle Eastern flavor of the rituals.

A common denominator for the immigrants is a firsthand knowledge of the perils they have faced and perhaps a quite different perspective than that of native-born Americans. Some of them were willing to share their insights after Mass at St. Maron’s on Sunday, April 3, although in some cases hesitant to give their full names.

(See a photo gallery from the Mass at St. Maron’s here. Watch a video from the Mass here.)

In Syria, friendship not guaranteed in wartime

“E,” who is Orthodox Syrian, was working in Saudi Arabia in the computer field as matters were going from bad to worse in his homeland and came to America last year with his wife and two children.

“It was not a good atmosphere to raise children where not only Christian teachings were not accepted but also any teachings that weren’t Muslim,” he said. “It was a closed society which was OK for me but not my children.”

During Mass at St. Maron Church in Philadelphia, Christelle Matar lets her father know she is being quiet. (Sarah Webb)

During Mass at St. Maron Church in Philadelphia, Christelle Matar lets her father know she is being quiet. (Sarah Webb)

His home village, mostly Syriac Christians, was overrun by militants in 2013 with a number of people killed and homes destroyed. Although the Syrian army recaptured the village it is still dangerous.

“We were always a protected by the government, but it is an uneasy situation,” he said. “As Christians we were second-class citizens; some people in society think Christians are pro-Western. We did not think that. We were living among Muslims who were are friends but in a civil war nothing is guaranteed.”

“John,” who is a Maronite Catholic, has been in America for 30 years.  He left after high school, at a time when the Lebanese Christians, Muslims and Druze were fighting.

“If I didn’t come here most likely I would be dead,” he said.

Oil in the Middle East: Source of conflict

Basically he sees the Middle East conflicts as a struggle between the Sunnis and the Shia, with minorities such as the Christians caught in the middle.

“Russia is supporting the Shia and the U.S. is supporting the Sunnis,” he said. “The U.S. is also supporting Saudi Arabia and the Emirates; Russia is supporting Iran. As long as there is oil in the Middle East there is going to be a push to control it on the part of the super powers and it is the minorities that are affected the most. The solution is to figure out a way that all can co-exist but that is not the case.”

Philip, who is a Latin-rite Catholic, was born and raised in Lebanon although his parents were Palestinians from Bethlehem who fled after the 1948 war between the Palestinians and the Israelis.

“If there was peace nobody would leave their homeland,” he said.  “Palestinians, including Christians, left for Iraq, Iran, Syria, Lebanon and the West.”

Now most of his family is in the United States, although one sister is in Dubai. “My grandmother has 52 grandchildren here,” he said.

Like many of the immigrants he believes the United States and Russia are at least partly to blame for what has been happening in the Middle East. “We never had ISIS or al Qaeda. You are supposed to support, not destabilize,” he said. “We would love to see the big powers play fair and square, not support one against the other.”

Vivian, Philip’s wife, is a Syriac Catholic from Iraq, and her family is scattered. Her view of the situation in Iraq is based mostly on her perception of Saddam Hussein and his treatment of Christians.

Christians had it better under Saddam

“In my opinion, when we had Saddam in Iraq we were all at peace as Christians. Saddam was very kind to the Christians and when he died everything got worse,” she said. “His main bodyguard was Christian and the nanny for his kids was Christian. At Christmas and Easter he would go congratulate the bishops. He was one of the only ones to open the doors to Palestinian people when they had their war.

“We used to sleep with the doors unlocked, both Christians and Muslims. Now you can’t,” she said.

(Sarah Webb)

(Sarah Webb)

“Joe,” who is also from Iraq, came to America 20 years ago. “We did have family members killed,” he said.

He came here as a high school graduate and is now a doctor and most of his family is in the United States. He now considers the United States his country, but still, if there was peace he would love to visit his old neighborhood.

“We had limitations as Christians, but I had friends that I didn’t know what their religion was,” he said. “We had neighbors who treated each other as brothers no matter what their religion was. We celebrated each other’s holidays together and we were sad when they were sad.  “Christians were a peaceful faction and Saddam’s attitude was, ‘If you don’t come after me I won’t go after you.’ Now, as a Christian if I went back I would be questioned.”

The core of the problem in the Middle East, Joe believes, is “greed.”

“Everybody who comes to it wants a piece of it, whether from the West or elsewhere.”

Today, “everyone goes after their own interest. It should be for the common good and following the teachings of Christ, but it’s hard to tell how to do that,” he said. “We all hope for peace and the way to peace is through prayers to make people see peace as the ultimate goal.”