VATICAN CITY (CNS) — Under certain circumstances and after long prayer and a profound examination of conscience, some divorced and civilly remarried Catholics may return to the sacraments, said the bishops of Malta.
With “an informed and enlightened conscience,” a separated or divorced person living in a new relationship who is able “to acknowledge and believe that he or she is at peace with God,” the bishops said, “cannot be precluded from participating in the sacraments of reconciliation and the Eucharist.”
The Maltese “Criteria for the Application of Chapter VIII of ‘Amoris Laetitia,'” Pope Francis’ apostolic exhortation on the family, was published Jan. 13 after being sent to all of the country’s priests by Archbishop Charles Scicluna of Malta and Bishop Mario Grech of Gozo.
The bishops urged their priests to recognize how “couples and families who find themselves in complex situations, especially those involving separated or divorced persons who have entered a new union” may have “‘lost’ their first marriage,” but not their hope in Jesus.
“While exercising our ministry, we must be careful to avoid falling into extremes: into extreme rigor on the one hand and laxity on the other,” the two Maltese bishops wrote to their priests.
“Some of these earnestly desire to live in harmony with God and with the church, so much so, that they are asking us what they can do in order to be able to celebrate the sacraments of reconciliation and the Eucharist,” the bishops wrote.
The first step, they said, always must be to affirm church teaching that marriage is indissoluble. Then, the bishops said, the couple’s specific situation should be examined to determine if their first union was a valid marriage. If not, they should be encourage to seek an annulment.
Without an annulment, the bishops said, couples living in a new relationship should be encouraged to abstain from sexual relations since the church does not consider their new union a marriage. Sometimes, however, the couple will find practicing the virtue of “conjugal continence” impossible.
Archbishop Scicluna and Bishop Grech urged priests to devote time to such couples, guiding them in a reflection on their first union, their contributions to its failure, the impact on their children and a host of other questions.
“This discernment acquires significant importance since, as the pope teaches, in some cases this help” from the church in growing in holiness “can include the help of the sacraments,” the Malta document said.
“While exercising our ministry, we must be careful to avoid falling into extremes: into extreme rigor on the one hand and laxity on the other,” the bishops wrote to their priests.